Also, a great book to read on the subject is Introvert Power by Laurie Helgoe, PhD. This book has a really empowering positive spin on the idea of being an introvert and challenges the long held belief that there are more extroverts in the world than there are introverts. You can check the book out on amazon.ca:


A note from the author:

Hello members of Introverts Social!

Aimee invited me to send a greeting, and I'm glad for the opportunity. I'm an introvert and the author of Introvert Power: Why Your Inner Life is Your Hidden Strength. As I look at your diverse membership, I am reminded of the fascinating mix of introverts who contributed to my book -- defying the stereotype of a sallow, lip-biting recluse (and to any sallow, lip-biting recluses out there -- I would love to get to know you because there's nothing sallow about an introvert's inner life). I digress, but I'm so glad Aimee introduced me to your group. There are many introverts out there wanting to connect, but with the understanding that 1.) they don't do small talk, 2.) they would much rather talk about ideas and musings than about who's who, and 3.) they are okay with pauses and silence, and... well, you get the idea.


I love seeing "Introverts" and "Social" together. Yes, we are not antisocial! We just do social differently. As I said in my book: For introverts, the focal point is internal, with each participant bringing the other inside and working things out there. A good conversation leaves an introvert feeling more connected, but also personally richer.


Here's to rich connections!


Best, Laurie